Posts Tagged ‘decision’


Change”  – The world we are living is changing each day, same to our surrounding. Whether you like it or not, we have to face the change. Change is not easy for some people. The scare of the uncertainty, the scare of failure, the new adjustment of lifestyle and so forth.

When come to life and career changes, lots of people are facing a difficult time in making the decision whether to change or to stay put. Many workers are not happy with their employment – they complaint over and over again, unhappy with their bosses & colleagues & companies, unsatisfied with their salary and remuneration, and one going of nagging. However, they still remain in the company and doing the same old routine tasks years after years.

Why they don’t take action to resolve the issue and thing they not happy with?   

It simple…. Scare of Change!!! 

Reasons we have been heard are “If I quit, I may not able to find another job that provide me so and so salary and package”; “Without this job, I cannot able to survive with all my commitment & expenses”; “I am too old to move on to other job, no one will want to recruit me” and many more to tell.

Change can be a scary thing to some people. However, positive people take change as ways to open them another opportunity and perhaps towards something they are awaiting which they never experienced before.

 Change is something like closing one door and open another door to face all the new excitement and new experiences.

 It is your choice of whether to accept the Change that offer to you now. Only you can make the decision and no one else. Think smart and Act wise.


Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending

(Maria Robinson)


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Living a life that without making any decision is impossible.

For the past two years, I have been living in a simple life … taking up a freelance teaching job, escaping from the corporate life, all the tension & stress from works and the nightmare  of working hours.  Living my life as there is no tomorrow. Of course, the downside is a huge scarified  in term of pay check and living a luxury lifestyle.

Two years ventured into children teaching and allowing me to re-evaluate my goal, my passion and my direction of life. At time, I began to questioned why I took up some paths that getting me longer to achieve what I want… why no one telling me what to do when I took up the wrong road… and so forth.  Those are the past.

Now, in front of me is another junction of life to choose from.  Which road should I continues my journey onto…. *thinking…. *thinking…. *thinking… and *keep thinking…. *still thinking….   making decision is not easy thing and guess we have to accept it as that is part of our life.

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The major different between WE (Human Being) compared with other creatures in this world is WE are given a powerful tool called “CHOICE”.

Every human being has the right to make their own decision in life with the exception of few things in life, like:  

BIRTH: We are coming to this world without giving the choice of picking who our parents should be… We don’t have choice!

DEATH: We are on our death bed and soon we will be leaving this world… We don’t have choice!  

But, we have CHOICE in:

Ø      choosing who our friends are

Ø      who our life partner to be with

Ø      which dress to wear

Thurs, the choice is upon our hand.

Making the right choice will grant us to the success and happy road.

Making the wrong choice is not the end of world (provided it not involves death). We must learn how to transform the Wrong Choice to the Right Choice in future. We learn; We progress; We don’t give up in making Choices after multiple failures or mistakes.


Be miserable. Or motivate yourself.

Whatever has to be done, it’s always your CHOICE.

(Wayne Dyer)

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